Thinking of others before ourselves is not about neglecting your own needs, it’s about refining the heart so that it reflects sincerity, humility and compassion. This quality is known as selflessness and it is a mark of deep faith. With everything happening in the world a common thread emerges that those with the ability to help often choose not to because it costs them something.
In the Quran God praises those who prefer others over themselves:
“And they give preference to others over themselves, even though they are in need…” (Qur’an 59:9)
This verse describes people in Madina, who welcomed others with such generosity that they shared their homes, wealth and comfort. Their example shows that true faith is not just belief, it is lived through how we treat others.
The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said:
“None of you truly believes until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself.”
This hadith shifts the focus from self-centered living to other-centered sincerity. When we put others first:
- It weakens ego;
- It removes greed and jealousy; and
- It cultivates contentment.
This allows the heart to become lighter because it is no longer constantly seeking its own elevation. A society built on selflessness becomes more trusting, more united and more resilient. When each person looks out for the other, the whole system becomes stronger this applies in families, teams and even your professional environment.
The life of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was a living embodiment of giving:
- He would go hungry so others could eat;
- He forgave when he had the power to punish; and
- He served others despite being the leader.
This is a reminder that His greatness was not in taking, but in giving. When we prioritise others for the sake of God:
- Your wealth is blessed;
- Your time becomes more productive; and
- Your relationships deepen.
What we tend to not understand is what we “give away” is never lost, it returns in ways unseen.
Selflessness does not mean self-destruction. Islam teaches balance to fulfil your responsibilities to yourself, but not to let the self dominate your purpose. Real greatness is quiet, it is found in hearts that give without needing to be seen. Thank you to all those that made this feeding possible, may you be granted an abundance of wealth and the best of health as you all contributed to the 2,750 mouths fed today.
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